The Power of a Smile

In a session last week with one of my learners, I asked her about a new provider she started working with. Her achievement with the provider has significantly improved as compared to others she has worked with in the past. She is excited about the sessions, she excitedly shares what she worked on during her session and retains what she learns throughout their time. I reflected with the student on her experience and my observations, and it was fascinating...Me: It seems that you are really enjoying your time with _______!Student: Oh yes, she is great! We do so many fun things together. She is so nice, and she really likes me. Me: That is wonderful! How do you know she likes you?Student: I know she likes me because she asks me how I feel and what my body needs. She also gives me tools I can use in case I need them. Every time she's sees me she says "Hi!" but she doesn't just say it she is so excited to see me she says it with her eyes too!""She says it with her eyes" I sat on that one for a second. The impact of your affect is enormous. Children are so aware of their environments and what is going on around them. They see and use subtle cues to inform them. They use these cues to determine if they are safe. When they are safe, they can take risks, face challenges and develop into the beautiful goodness they all have inside of them. So, friendly reminder.....your tiny little "hi" can have a huge impact. Don't forget to say it with your eyes.